Physical Attractiveness: How far outside "class" can someone punch?

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Plenty of hot, insecure women will go with an uglier man for security. Less likely to stray. Gives ugly men hope everywhere.
 

Honeybee

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A LOT of it is how you carry yourself I believe and it's just a matter of meeting into a woman that likes the qualities you bring to the table beyond looks. If you think you'll never get with a good looking bird you never will. If you can make them laugh and show them that they can have a good time with you you'll have success.

If we're talking strictly looks here I think we all know lads that definitely wouldn't fit the traditional good looking bloke type (think blokes out of Shameless) and they're with attractive looking birds.

I'm actually fairly convinced women don't see attractiveness the way we do. We can break our way in there with humour and our personalities. How many times have you heard a woman say that there's just something about a bloke. Confidence, humour and how you carry yourself are the keys I think.
Good response. There really isn't an answer....because everybody is different & has their own tastes as far as what they go for. I have read in comments and heard people talk about how Pete Davidson is ugly and Ariana Grande and Kate Beckinsale are too good for him. They feel different and it's not something you can pin on fame or money, they both have those things and could get with someone who has a higher profile than Pete if they wanted. They clearly just like him and yes find him handsome as hard as that might be to believe. Likewise, just b/c a girl today might not like you, it doesn't mean a much "hotter" one won't like you tomorrow.

You're not out of luck if you don't look like the current most desired Hollywood star or whatever - you'll just drive yourself crazy with anxiety if that's what you believe. Just an observation i've made. It does help if you can stick out in some way/have something unique about you that sets you apart from other guys - that's where personal style comes in & it's intriguing to girls.
 
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You wouldn't walk down the street with Kate Beckingsdale?


Nae borra, mate.
No that's ridiculous. Even at 31 I wouldn't (I look like I'm 20 something). I'd just tap that booty behind closed doors. That is too far and ridiculous. Not worth it either give me a young bitch anyday over a women past her prime.

A handful of celebs look way better than Kate at this stage. Kate doesn't even look the same lots of wrinkles around the eyes and mouth.
 

AntG

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I've generally always pulled women out of my league, I'm prematurely bald, going grey, slightly over weight, shit teeth, no money. I think they like me because I'm more interesting than well the bloke who lives next door to me for example, he's got a decent paying job, always has good motors, takes his wife and kids on holidays to the Caribbean and all that but he's an absolute crashing bore, he's one of those 9 to 5 types who spends his weekend taking a trip to B&Q so he can do a bit of DIY and in the summer he has BBQ's and invites equally dull couples round and you can hear them laughing about inane shit until the small hours and to top it all off he plays golf.
 

Squire

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People often assume a woman with a wealthy guy is a gold digger, but often the qualities that earned a guy his wealth are what the woman finds attractive. The money won't hurt but women don't go for looks out of ten the way men do. A male 8 being in a relationship with a female 5 who has money seems far more likely to be a gold digger situation to me

Nah I would say white guys still have the edge - especially with Asian birds.
Definitely. Tinder swipe stats a couple of years ago showed white men and Asian women to be the most desirable, with black women and Asian men the least.
 
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I've generally always pulled women out of my league, I'm prematurely bald, going grey, slightly over weight, shit teeth, no money. I think they like me because I'm more interesting than well the bloke who lives next door to me for example, he's got a decent paying job, always has good motors, takes his wife and kids on holidays to the Caribbean and all that but he's an absolute crashing bore, he's one of those 9 to 5 types who spends his weekend taking a trip to B&Q so he can do a bit of DIY and in the summer he has BBQ's and invites equally dull couples round and you can hear them laughing about inane shit until the small hours and to top it all off he plays golf.
The reason could also be because he's married.
 
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I personally don't think she is outstanding. But there's a clear few divisions ol mate has jumped up between them.
 
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Boxing has some funny ones where the opposite is true.

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Jeff Horn's is just sad. The guy is a former world champion in probably the second most prestigious division in boxing (HW is probably the first), and his wife looks like that.
 
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I was really into Leslie Ash in the 80's (before she became a fish) I struggled to see how she chose Atkinson over me.