The Evil Part Of Me....Ex Bullshit...ended relationship shit...

Deebo

"Messkin" Deebo
Jun 5, 2013
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Show dem balls bro
In all seriousness, do what others here have said and let it go. You're not in love with her you're obsessed with her based on the way she manipulated you.
 

mandela

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May 16, 2013
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Where's your sense of romance, guys?

You ever watched a rom-com that didn't have a twist?

This is all set up for the happily ever after, imo.

The lassie cheated, a Wal-Mart altercation, a discreet finger blasting and an online commentary of it all. The 'other' guy even has a history of depression.

The classic ingredients are all here, man.


Let's see this through, Johnstown. Bring her home.
 

Vic

Jun 7, 2012
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She is no good, I´m sorry...

You know what will happen if you two comeback together ? She will cheat on you one day or another.

Stay away of this woman, baldy... there are nice, reliable women out there.
 

Vic

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And yes, you should let the guy know that she is a Judas, fuck that he is prone to depression and shit, he needs to man up. Tell him ! Let him know, but I think you would help him more than anything.... unless he is too weak.
if it was me I know I would like to know, anyway.. each to their own...
 
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Haggis

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May 16, 2013
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She is no good, I´m sorry...

You know what will happen if you two comeback together ? She will cheat on you one day or another.

Stay away of this woman, baldy... there are nice, reliable women out there.
Yep.

I remember my dad telling me many times "There's two types of women. Ones who will cheat, and ones who won't. If she cheated on someone else to be with you, then sooner or later she'll cheat on you with someone else and invent bullshit excuses to justify it. But you're either a cheater or you're not a cheater, same as you're either a thief or you're not a thief. If you're a thief, then you chose to give away your right to get upset when something goes missing and anyone looks at you. And if you date a cheater, then you're only killing time until you get cheated on."

:hat
 

Vic

Jun 7, 2012
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Yep.

I remember my dad telling me many times "There's two types of women. Ones who will cheat, and ones who won't. If she cheated on someone else to be with you, then sooner or later she'll cheat on you with someone else. You're either a cheater or you're not a cheater, same as you're either a thief or you're not a thief. If you're a thief, then you chose to give away your right to get upset when something goes missing and someone looks at you. And if you date a cheater, then you're only killing time until you get cheated on."

:hat
Of course. Baldy is now acting like he is the fucking man because she cheated on this guy with him....... YOU WILL BE ON THE OTHER SIDE one day, my friend, if you commit yourself with this woman.
 
May 18, 2013
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Of course. Baldy is now acting like he is the fucking man because she cheated on this guy with him....... YOU WILL BE ON THE OTHER SIDE one day, my friend, if you commit yourself with this woman.
I thought she had already cheated on him with the guy he jumped at Walmart?
 

Vic

Jun 7, 2012
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I thought she had already cheated on him with the guy he jumped at Walmart?
She did ? Well, then he is a fool to even think about her.

edit - no offense btw, Johnstown... but c´mon, do the right thing for yourself.
 
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She broke up with me in april.....she apparently started dating him in may....supposedly she didnt cheat on me. But i know he had been working on her for awhile.
 

Vic

Jun 7, 2012
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She broke up with me in april.....she apparently started dating him in may....supposedly she didnt cheat on me. But i know he had been working on her for awhile.
That´s better.

I know the pain, probably everybody here old enough knows this pain... but it will pass, it has passed for me already. Enjoy yourself, do things that you like. Focus on you, you are the only person you can control.
Go out in the nature, hunting, fishing, learn something new, do some boxing, physical activity in general, write things, do some career plans, study.. and dont let your ego talk !
You´ll be stronger soon.
 
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She broke up with me in april.....she apparently started dating him in may....supposedly she didnt cheat on me. But i know he had been working on her for awhile.
Im not trying to fuck with you here but.......i would bet the farm that she was banging Depression Boy before she split with you. Its just how they operate. Had it happen to me and found out later that she cheated on every guy she was with. Just move on and stop letting her jerk your chain.
 

mandela

CHB Führer
May 16, 2013
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Yep.

I remember my dad telling me many times "There's two types of women. Ones who will cheat, and ones who won't. If she cheated on someone else to be with you, then sooner or later she'll cheat on you with someone else and invent bullshit excuses to justify it. But you're either a cheater or you're not a cheater, same as you're either a thief or you're not a thief. If you're a thief, then you chose to give away your right to get upset when something goes missing and anyone looks at you. And if you date a cheater, then you're only killing time until you get cheated on."

:hat
Your dad fair goes on a bit, eh?
 

Mat Cauthon

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May 22, 2013
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So in the past few months i made some threads about my ex breaking up with me....finding out she was dating another guy and had moved him into her house....

Than my seeing them at walmart...kind of grabbing the guy by this walmart shirt while my ex tried to pull me off and her daughter hit me.


Well about a month later (late june) i saw her at a event in johnstown (thunder in the valley...a motorcycle ralley) she smiled at me...we talked.

She revealed things were not so great with the new guy.

She said hes like "a baby" in many ways...but he is such a good man.

A week later...i messaged her from my ghost facebook account.

We talked on there...meet again...we kissed...i fingered her...

She had claimed they havent had sex....


She is still with him


I still love her...but part of me has so much anger for her.

And thr guy? Well he was working on her when she was with me...and inspite of what she says i know he knew i was with her.


So for the past month i have been fighting the urge to contact him and tell him about that night.

I know what excuse she used...i even know that when she came into the house she was crying..he asked her why and she lied about the why. I know what lie she told.


He is always putting picks of her on his page.

I know he is pron to depression.

I could destroy him...

And part of me really wants to...but i wont...i just wont...